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K S Raajasekar
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From K S Raajasekar to everyone в 21:15, 29/01/11 Reply | Reply in new thread | Edit

She wanted gifts for the Christmas and New Year...May be one way a alternative for asking money...Just because this gift was not going...she terms a man as Liar and Swindler...I have correspondence to show you...ask me...


Walter
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From Walter to K S Raajasekar в 17:37, 15/04/11 Reply | Reply in new thread | Edit

K S Raajasekar:She wanted gifts for the Christmas and New Year...May be one way a alternative for asking money...Just because this gift was not going...she terms a man as Liar and Swindler...I have correspondence to show you...ask me...
I'm not sure what you are trying to say, are you saying that the lady who you are corresponding with called you "A liar and Swindler" after you didn't give gifts for Christmas and New Year? Did you promise to give any gifts in any earlier letters to her? Women often make the mistaken connection between gifts and love, often the women feel that if the man loves her then he should give gifts to show that he loves her. I guess that is why women want big diamond rings; it is to show her that he loves her. But here in North America that trend is fading away fast, men almost NEVER give gifts now, men and women live together as friends for a long time and they slowly form bonds together without giving gifts, and many men and women marry without the exchange of huge diamond rings. They still give a ring but the diamonds are much smaller because they have lived together for many years already and they know each other very well and there is no need to prove their love with a huge diamond ROCK. But I guess in Ukraine they are more like the way women were in the past; they want proof of love right away. My advice to you is to do one of two things: 1) Either move to her home city and live with her for the next 4 years and in this way she can slowly get to know you and know that you care for her, or --- 2) Gift a smaller gift to her, something not so expensive, and tell her that you don't know her well enough yet to give anything more expensive then that. 3) Don't give anything and she will then assume you don't care for her and you've probably lost her as a friend. (I could be wrong about all of this, I'm just guessing here, sorry about that.)



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